How does this relate to our subject today? Well...let's think about this for a second. When someone mistreats you are you able to just forgive them or are tempted to NEVER FORGET it. Like the elephant, you have a memory that won't stop...you go over it and over it and share it with everyone you meet.
We are not to keep a running checklist of wrongs done to us. I heard it said once that this would be like being bit by a poisonous snake and then trying to hold on to it because you were mad that it bit you. All that will accomplish is your getting bitten again and causing lots of pain...eventually death. We are to let go of the wrongs, not grab them and hold on to them with all our might. Holding on to hurts will only cause us more pain and could be the death of relationships.
Don't let this happen to you...show love in all situations...love keeps no record of wrongs.